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Katly                         Katly
Katly | Posted 30+ days ago

I have PCOS and have been trying for 4 years now. The worst thing that has ever happened to me. Any suggestions gals?

Tali                          Tali
Tali | Posted 30+ days ago

Hi, I have a few friends with PCOS, and one of which has 2 boys after she was told by the doctor that she couldn't have any children. She went to see a natropath and that helped her a lot. Good Luck.

Jen                           Jen
Jen | Posted 30+ days ago

I also suffer from PCOS and find that when I exercise and am at a healthy weight it helps my cycle. I also feel better as well. I also went to a Naturopath who gave me an individual plan with herbs.

Chris                         Chris
Chris | Posted 30+ days ago

Hi, can you tell me have you ever tried any of the blackmores to fall pregnant?

Katly                         Katly
Katly | Posted 30+ days ago

Thanks Tali and Jen and Chris. Ill try that. Chris no I haven't tried but will look into it.

Julie                         Julie
Julie | Posted 30+ days ago

have you considered adoption, there are alot of children in need of a loving family?

Amanda                        Amanda
Amanda | Posted 30+ days ago

Hi Katly, I know you put this comment up ages ago, but I just wanted to ask how you're doing? I too have PCOS and we've been trying for 3 years.

Regina                        Regina
Regina | Posted 30+ days ago

have to agree. I suffer from polycystic ovaries also as well as type 2 diabetes as well as my husband had a low sperm count - so we were served a triple whammy. It was always hard to see friends and others fall at the dropof the hat "or not even trying" as well as all these unwanted teenage pregnancies -its a very emotional and trying time for a couple.
We tried for 2 years, suffered two miscarriages in the 3rd year and the 4th year after 10 cycles of CLOMID as well as my husband on the chinese herbs - we fell and now have a beautiful little boy whose almost 2. We've been trying again now for about 6 months and having no luck so we're about to start the CLOMID again cause that obviosuly helped us last time. Research whatever u can to help you and try not to stress or think about it too much. Life will find a way :-)

Gina                          Gina
Gina | Posted 30+ days ago

Excuse my ignorance, what is PCOS?

Katly                         Katly
Katly | Posted 30+ days ago

Poly Cystic Overian Syndrome

Sonja                         Sonja
Sonja | Posted 30+ days ago

Polycystic ovary syndrome en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Polycystic_ovary_syndrome

Anje                          Anje
Anje | Posted 30+ days ago

I have PCOS, and I fell pregnant after nearly a year of Ovulation Induction in conjunction with acupuncture and chinese herbs. My husband also was on the chinese herbs (which taste foul) but we got pregnant within 9 weeks of seeing the Chinese doctor. Do some ressearch into the chinese doctors, they are amazing.

Regina                        Regina
Regina | Posted 30+ days ago

I have to agree. I suffer from polycystic ovaries also as well as type 2 diabetes as well as my husband had a low sperm count - so we were served a triple whammy. It was always hard to see friends and others fall at the dropof the hat "or not even trying" as well as all these unwanted teenage pregnancies -its a very emotional and trying time for a couple.
We tried for 2 years, suffered two miscarriages in the 3rd year and the 4th year after 10 cycles of CLOMID as well as my husband on the chinese herbs - we fell and now have a beautiful little boy whose almost 2. We've been trying again now for about 6 months and having no luck so we're about to start the CLOMID again cause that obviosuly helped us last time. Research whatever u can to help you and try not to stress or think about it too much. Life will find a way :-)

Julie                         Julie
Julie | Posted 30+ days ago

Personally, I am not sure that these natural remedies are the immediate cure, as I believe that if you think that they are working, it will seem as though they are, its all in the mind and these people make alot of money from that. If you believe that something works, it does! Its mind over matter, just let nature take its course and without upsetting anyone, sometimes things do not happen for a good reason.

CHERYL                        CHERYL
CHERYL | Posted 30+ days ago

What reason would that be, Julie?

Julie                         Julie
Julie | Posted 30+ days ago

Cheryl, the reason is that a womans body cannot cope with being pregnant and that is why she is unable to carry a baby full term, hope that answers your question, as to why things do not happen for a good reason.

Stephanie                     Stephanie
Stephanie | Posted 30+ days ago

Hi Julie. My name is Stephanie and I am a Blackmores Naturopath. I noticed your post and thought I would comment regarding your point about the natural remedies. Any serious condition affecting fertility should be addressed with one or many health care professionals. This may include a complementary medicine practitioner that may discuss natural remedies. It is important to remember that a number of natural treatments have been clinically trialled and shown to have benefits. Some of these trials have been randomised double blind placebo controlled trials which are considered the gold standard in medical research.

There are numerous cases of women who have conceived naturally when the odds were against them after seeing a naturopath or complementary medicine practitioner and were given advice on diet and lifestyle. Part of seeing a complementary medicine practitioner will focus on how important nutrition is and they may also address the emotional and mental aspect of their infertility and changing their attitude around it. While this may have been combined with natural remedies, the holistic approach to their fertility was what usually allowed them to conceive naturally.

All the best,
Stephanie

Regina                        Regina
Regina | Posted 30+ days ago

Hi Julie, I think its really harsh of you to say sometimes things do not happen for a good reason. Any baby is a blessing and until you have been in a position like many of who try for years or lose babies you shouldn't be so quick to judge. Infertility issues are a huge burden to have to deal with and it doesn't make it any easier when people are ignorant towards those who want nothing more than a child. Natural remedies are a great way to increase fertility and sometimes (like my own situation) science or medical assistance also need to come in to play. Telling some women you're just not meant to be a mother - is like telling them not to breathe. The majority of us chose to put a brave face on and continue our battle but we are only human and when we see unwanted pregnancies or unplanned ones taken for granted........ well frankly its infuriating. Thanks for understanding.

CHERYL                        CHERYL
CHERYL | Posted 30+ days ago

Hi Julie, Thanks for clarifying your reasoning. It helps to understand where you're coming from. I would like to make a few points. There are a lot of women and I'm one of them, who had difficulty conceiving and there are others who had difficulty holding onto a pregnancy. This does not mean that they are "not meant to" have children. There are many, many women who are happy and fulfilled mothers, thanks to alternative therapies or medical help.

Think about heart transplants or even heart bypass operations. Are the recipients of those procedures "not meant" to live. Should they be left to suffer an early death when medical help is available. Should people with type 1 diabetes not be given insulin injections? What about kidney and liver transplants?

As Stephanie points out, a little tweaking of a woman's diet and nutrition status, with the aim of achieving a much wanted pregnancy, is surely something to be applauded. It is very easy for those not affected by infertility to underestimate the emotional pain it causes. I would not wish for anyone to have to deal with it if there is help available. Being a mother is a very sacred desire for some women and it is painful in the extreme to be told that "sometimes there is a good reason why they are not capable of carrying a fullterm pregnancy". although I am sure you did not intend this.


Regina                        Regina
Regina | Posted 30+ days ago

have to agree. I suffer from polycystic ovaries also as well as type 2 diabetes as well as my husband had a low sperm count - so we were served a triple whammy. It was always hard to see friends and others fall at the dropof the hat "or not even trying" as well as all these unwanted teenage pregnancies -its a very emotional and trying time for a couple.
We tried for 2 years, suffered two miscarriages in the 3rd year and the 4th year after 10 cycles of CLOMID as well as my husband on the chinese herbs - we fell and now have a beautiful little boy whose almost 2. We've been trying again now for about 6 months and having no luck so we're about to start the CLOMID again cause that obviosuly helped us last time. Research whatever u can to help you and try not to stress or think about it too much. Life will find a way :-)

CHERYL                        CHERYL
CHERYL | Posted 30+ days ago

CONGRATULATIONS ON YOUR LITTLE BOY, REGINA, AFTER SO MANY HURDLES YOU HAD TO JUMP. GOOD LUCK WITH CONCEIVING YOUR SECOND BABY.

nat                           nat
nat | Posted 30+ days ago

what is clomid

Charmaine                     Charmaine
Charmaine | Posted 30+ days ago

Hi Nat,
My name is Charmaine & I'm a Blackmores naturopath.
Clomid is a a selective estrogen receptor modulator (SERM) that increases production of certain hormones in the body. It is used mainly for ovarian stimulation in women who are having fertility difficulties.
I hope that helps Nat.
All the best,
Charmaine

Regina                        Regina
Regina | Posted 30+ days ago

Hi - I have just completed my 8th round of CLOMID. Its day 30 and no period which I assume is coming cause I took a pregancy test on day 28 and it was negative. We lost another baby January this year. In February my husband took another sperm motility test and it shows the count even less. Do we give up on the CLOMID now and just start looking at IVF options? It took 21 months (including 12 months naturally + 10 cycles of CLOMID, to fall with our firstborn). This time we've been trying even longer.
Does anyone have any advice? I have heard IVF costs upfront are very expensive and we really don't have many savings.
R

CHERYL                        CHERYL
CHERYL | Posted 30+ days ago

Hi Regina, You have certainly had your battles and my heart goes out to you and your husband. It's many years since I was fortunate enough to conceive after 12 years and many IVF attempts so I'm not sure of the costs but I wonder whether, given your husband's sperm count problem you might consider just going to have a consult with IVF specialists as they should be able to offer help in that area. You could get an idea of the costs involved then. My advice is always to act sooner rather than later.

Have you had a laparoscopy to assess your tubes and ovaries? If not, that is also important.

I hope this is some help to you, even if it's just to know someone understands.

Keep in touch, Cheryl.

Regina                        Regina
Regina | Posted 30+ days ago

Cheryl thanks for your advice. You are certainly a lot mor ein tune with my issues rather than our friend Julie down below.
I've ordered a book and DVD from Sydney IVF as well as spoken to Fertility First to start getting some info. We are heading to an information evening next Tuesday at our local private hospital also. It seems we're looking at about $7-$8K upfront with about $4K given back from Medicare. Of course though we don't have the savings we will do what it takes to give our little boy a brother or sister. I see him with other kids and their siblings and he cuddles and kisses them and I can see what a wonderful big brother he would be.
I sadly got my period this morning (day 34) so am going to have to start the 9th cycle of CLOMID. I can only try it for another 3 cycles and then IVF will become a reality. Studies show you should fall after only 6 cycles and its harder for women over 35. I am only 33.
I had a laproscapy years ago to determine if I had endimetriosis - thankfully I didn't. I regularly have ultrasounds to monitor my cysts due to PCOS and my weight is a contstant battle to maintain my Type 2 diabetes. The type 2 was a result of having PCOS - i've never been an overweight girl - its just been the luck of the game for me that these diseases triggered eachother. I am trying to lose a little more weight if I can and I walk and zumba regularly to keep my fitness up and my hubby has lost 12 kilos and given up any sort of social drinking.

Fingers crossed. I heard of another 2 unplanned pregnancies today and needless to say ... it hurt.

:-(

CHERYL                        CHERYL
CHERYL | Posted 30+ days ago

Hi Regina, Back again. You certainly have the determination and perseverence that are needed. I was 38 when I eventually had my son so it can happen. However, I didn't have PCOS, I had endometriosis. I do know that getting your weight down will help your PCOS and type 2 diabetes so keep up the good work there. I would like to share with you that I was only able to have my one beautiful boy as I had early menopause not long after he was born and my son, my husband and I have absolutely no regrets that this is how it turned out for us. We enjoyed every bit of his babyhood and childhood, knowing he would be the only one. He's not the slightest bit spoilt, is very popular and has many friends. He's very happy as an only child so it's not always the way that people think it is. And now that he's 22, we are a very close family and all enjoy each other's company. So, enjoy that little boy you already have as their childhood races by. And don't let other people undermine you. They have their own issues.

Regina                        Regina
Regina | Posted 30+ days ago

Adoption isn't always the answer Julie - have you seen how long it takes?

Rana                          Rana
Rana | Posted 30+ days ago

Hi, i'm 35 - i have been off the pill since Oct 2010 and have been taking conceive well & I-folic for those past 6mths. My partner does fly in & out and he is always flying out 3 days before my egg should be release. What are my chances of falling pregnant? I'm getting nervous and frustrated due to my age. I have never had children before and my partner has 2 children from a previous relationship. Is there anything else i could be taking or doing? (and yes my partner needs to change his roster too)

Caroline                      Caroline
Caroline | Posted 30+ days ago

Hi Rana, you don't really need to worry until it is a year after you've started trying with no luck - it takes normal, healthy young couples an average of 6 months to conceive. Meanwhile, if you are overweight then losing just five kilos will increase your chances hugely (this goes for men as well!). If you have a pre existing problem like PCOS (like many below), then eating a healthy, low GI diet and exercising regularly (4 hours of high intensity exercise per week) help keep your hormones in good balance. Conceive Well is fantastic to keep on taking for your baby's ultimate health - taking it a year in advance is not too soon! Sometimes it takes a while for the nutrients to build up to high enough levels for fertility. You can help that with a healthy diet. I haven't started trying yet, will be in a couple of months but as I have PCOS I have already have a pre-natal check up and solutions session with my Endocrinologist (a fertility specialist as well) and researched like crazy, as I will be 34 soon and was also worried that it would not happen for me, but my research shows that the above tips are the very best, easiest and cheapest when you are just starting. So don't worry, relax, have fun and it will happen very soon!

Stephanie                     Stephanie
Stephanie | Posted 30+ days ago

Dear Rana. My name is Stephanie and I am a Blackmores Naturopath. Its great that you have been taking your supplements, but you do not need to take I-Folic as well as Conceive Well Gold. Conceive Well Gold provides the iodine and folic acid at the dosage required in pregnancy. By taking both these formulations you are taking iodine and folic acid at doses not established as safe in pregnancy. I encourage you to discontinue the I-Folic.

Caroline has offered some great advice below too - thanks Caroline.

All the very best,
Steph

Regina                        Regina
Regina | Posted 30+ days ago

Hi again Cheryl
your words of strength are encouraging - thankyou so much for listening and I do treasure every moment I have with my boy. I'm a full-time working mum so juggling home and office and grateful for what I have.
Thankyou for being so lovely..........

CHERYL                        CHERYL
CHERYL | Posted 30+ days ago

Hi Regina, I could tell that you treasure your son, no doubt about that! Take care of yourself and keep in touch.

Jess                          Jess
Jess | Posted 30+ days ago

Hi Katly, a couple of ideas:
1) www.npan.com.au

2) www.sandracabot.com/books -Infertility: the hidden causes (You need to read this!!)

3) Accupuncture - see if you can find an accupuncturist that specalises in fertility/IVF suppoprt. It's not a matter if you believe in them or not - they really do work - Accupuncture has been the ONLY help to my Migraines (in 15 years!)

I am going through the same as you- I'm on my last cycle of clomid - last chance EVER to conceive - my time is up -so everything is crossed!
Good luck!

Lisa                          Lisa
Lisa | Posted 30+ days ago

Hi All you beautiful women, I have PCOS ans so does my sister who is also type 1 diabetic. Both of us now have one child each and we credit this to a wonderful Naturopath Amanda Haberecht. She was working in the NAtural Fertility centre set up by Francesca Naish & Janette Roberts - they have written several books as well - preconception and post- "The Natural Way to Better Babies", is one.

Amanda now works in Balmain NSW at the Darling Street Health Centre.

All The BEST to you on your journey:) XOX Lisa

nnn                           nnn
nnn | Posted 30+ days ago

I too have PCOS. I cannot believe how common it really is.. Luckily hubby and I have not started trying for kids yet as I believe it will be very difficult for us. Trying to do it naturally and reverse the symptoms and lose those stubborn kilos that won't budge, and avoiding the risk of becoming diabetic while I can! Have tried naturopaths, low GI diet books for PCOS, calorie controlled diets, and lots of excersise on top of that. STILL no weight loss. Today I started seeing a clinical dietician. Hopefully I see some results soon.. otherwise it looks like it is Metformin for me!- Has anyone heard anything about this? I am worried about the long-term side effects.

Charmaine                     Charmaine
Charmaine | Posted 30+ days ago

Hi nnn. I’m sorry to hear about the difficulty you have had losing weight. PCOS can be a very complex condition involving multiple hormones – which unfortunately can impact on your weight, and make weight loss difficult. I’m glad to hear that you’re off to see a clinical dietician – hopefully they are able to help you. Have any of the practitioners you’ve seen in the past checked your hormone levels? If not - I think this would be very helpful to have done as it will enable you to find out exactly what is happening in your body & a treatment protocol can be designed especially for you. Metformin is a drug used in conditions where insulin resistance may be a factor (such as type 2 diabetes, PCOS, etc) – but it would be best to discuss the use of this medication with your healthcare practitioner. All the best nnn. Warm regards, Charmaine (Blackmores Naturopath)

christine                     christine
christine | Posted 30+ days ago

I was diagnosed with PCOS 13 years ago but Im now cured. I was 56kg at the time of diagnoses and found it incredibly hard to gain weight. I had lap surgery to clean out the cysts from my ovaries before I started IVF. On the first round of IVF I fell pregnant. This was 11 years ago. I have had several scans since the birth of my son and there are no signs of any cyst. Previous to falling pregnant I would have 1-2 periods a year but since the birth of my son it's like clock work. I am now 40years old and am thinking about having a second child. What would be the best medicine to take to boost my furtility??

christine                     christine
christine | Posted 30+ days ago

Also my weight fluxuates between 59kg and 62kg I am 5ft 6, exercise regularly. I dont diet but I am attracted to eating healthy foods naturally, such as salads and vegies, meats and nuts. I dislike fatty foods and cant stand how I feel after I eat them (unmotivated/tired and heavy).

Charmaine                     Charmaine
Charmaine | Posted 30+ days ago

Hi Christine, thank you for sharing your story. It’s wonderful to hear that you have had no sign of cysts, and regular cycles since your son’s birth. It sounds like your diet is good (and that your body will know what does & doesn’t work for it). Following a healthy diet is one of the more important things for fertility – other things to consider include: ensuring that you are drinking plenty of water, undertaking regular exercise, getting plenty of rest, reducing your stress levels and possibly undertaking a detox a few months before you intend on trying to conceive. There is lots of information in the Learning Centre regarding preconception care – you can find it in the following link: www.blackmores.com.au/learning-centre-assistant-results+%26+Preconception&segment=learning-centre&filter=category.
For more information on which products would be most suitable for you, please contact the Naturopathic Advisory service on 1800-803-760, or email us at advice@blackmores.com.au Warm regards, Charmaine (Blackmore Naturopath).

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